network with other self-help, motivational web sites.

read, study meditate on the very content that you are posting. practice it in you own life

get the get rich quick crap off your web site, if it worked you wouldn't have your phones running out of minutes all the time. how can you feel good about something as important as Creating Your future Today and feed lies to people with get rich crap posted

Put your thoughts down on your web site, you quote many wise people yet you don't present any inspiration from within yourself

Don't limit yourself by settling for whatever job you can find, get back in school, for you, your family and your families future

Take some anger management classes and stop blaming your failures on everyone else

If you wait for the right time to go for your dreams, assuming you have some and are not content living pay check to pay check, you will be 60 before you know it, living in a trailer park and digging ditches for a living. Taking your inner frustrations out on your wife, who has proved she is willing to give up the best friendship, her best friend, to stay with you. She has proved her worthiness to you, now you show her you got what it takes to make all her dreams come true

My forum ideas went from ideas off on a tangent. You just don't know the hurt of losing the best friend you have ever had and ever will over someone you know in your heart deep inside is full of hate and anger. I know you have "gotten rough" with her, I know your kind. I also know her self-esteem and co-dependency on you are what caused her to choose you. That is what hurts the most, why do these good hearted, sweet people choose to stay and live everyday in fear of the next time you might blow-up. Why knowing you left your wife for them and who's to say you won't do it again on them when they no longer appeal to you and some little hottie at the retail store you work at starts giving you attention, then the next thing you know it your leaving Lindsey for some 19 yr old shacking up with your latest catch and deserting Lindsey. What did you do that was so bad you couldn't get custody of one of your children? Is it a history of violence? You need help son and Lindsey doesn't need the verbal, mental and physical abuse you are proved you are capable of in her life. I think I have your personality profile down pretty good and you are like an IED (Improvised Explosive Device) that somewhere down the road she is going to trigger and you are going to go ballistic on her. I fear for her safety, as long as you are around her, I truly fear for her safety. I don't sleep at night, worrying over her, your dangerous, I knew that when she told me you left a man in the woods somewhere, not sure if you had killed him or not and then the time she was in the kitchen crying, trying to go somewhere in the house you wouldn't find her in tears because things like that set you off into a rage, that night was the night you slammed her against the wall and wrapped your hands around her neck choking her. She defended you actions of course, co-dependents do that. I should have not listened to my dad and went into law enforcement, against his best wishes, so I could help get people like you off the street. I fight a loosing battle though, unless the victim comes forth and admits to abuse, not even defacts or any branch of the law can do anything about it. Usually the only time they can do something about it is when the battered wife is in the hospital. All I can do is pray for Lindsey, pray that God will send angels down to protect her from you. I urge you to get help Dan, please.